Jay’s Playlist, or, The Songs Remain Exactly The Same.

A few months ago, several months in fact as I've been what we'll call lazy, a friend of mine shared her playlist online. I thought it was awesome. I don't know if that was her tried and true got-to playlist, or a recent collection of tracks that she'd been making her way through on her …

Is This Casual Sexism?

I'm not sure if this is one of my intrinsic biases rearing its ugly head, or if I'm just really that dysfunctional, but either way I should do something about it. First and foremost folks, we all have biases. Every single one of us. Yup, that includes you; the ultra-woke, self-aware, finger-on-the-pulse, conscientious and comprehensively …

A Year’s Worth Of Three Billion Beats; and, If You Didn’t Get Bruises, Then You Didn’t Earn That Money.

I started this blog about two years ago. I started it because I was horrendously depressed. I wasn't happy with my daily life. I thought this would be the best way for me to deal with that, to cope with the feelings of worthlessness and hopelessness, and do something positive instead of just wallowing in …

Traffic, Traffic, Lookin’ For My Chapstick

I drive a lot. Somedays I drive a couple hundred miles in ten or so hours. I've written a little about driving and traffic before, but I've been wanting to discuss it further. I grew up kinda all over the place, moving from house to house and city to city every couple of years, and …